Be who you want to be

" Judge not , neither condemn , those aspects of your life you do not understand. "

Meaning behind these words :

Life does not give what you want, but you will always  receive exactly what you need, for that precise moment.  At first, you may not know why a specific person or event came to you, but soon you will come to recognize that is what you needed to be the grandest version of yourself.

When you choose your life's purpose, you declare Who You Are. You decide a certain beingness , then doingness will follow up from that.
Regardless of what you are doing, keep being who you choose to be and focus on that. When you focus on your beingness ,  stick with that. Eventually, your physical form will soon respond and act in accordance with that choice. If you choose the beingness called calmness ,  your body will start ignoring noises.

When you act in accordance with your beingness ,  you are in control of your life. The exterior circumstances can no longer effect your inner peace.

Now, here is the tricky part. After choosing a certain beingness ,  opposites of what we wish to be will start to appear. Do not panic and certainly do not get lost in the process. Opposites appear in our lives, in order to create a space in which we can be. Therefore, see these opposites as a sure sign that we have begin the journey of transformation. These negatives or opposites are temporary and their purpose is to heal , forever ,  any negative feeling we had about the outer experience of our lives.

Example:  If you choose the beingness ,  'I am calmness ', then more noises will come into your life. However, now you exist in a state of choice - you will know why this is happening. You will be able to choose to see this as an opposite, and as a gift. So you can remain calm next to noise. And soon the outer noise will follow your calmness. Noisy children in the house may calm down

themselves, as they will pick up your calm energy. Even if they don't, that would not matter as by now you have mastered the moment and could move through it with calmness. The opposite will no longer have an effect as you render it dull. You will not condemn bad things anymore, rather you will look at them and make them dissappear. The act of condemnation is an act of resistance - and what you resist, persist.  What you look at dissappears.